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How to Actually Compare Wedding Vendors at a Show
(So You Feel Confident in Your Choices Later)
Wedding shows are exciting! There’s energy, inspiration, and a multitude of talented vendors under one roof. But after a few aisles of gorgeous displays, it’s easy to feel like every brochure looks the same and every business sounds amazing. If you’ve ever walked out with a bag full of cards and no clear direction, you’re not alone.
The good news? Comparing vendors doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With a little clarity on what truly matters, you can walk away confident, organized, and already on the path toward building a dream team for your wedding day.
Here’s how to make that happen.
The right vendors don’t just work your wedding—they elevate it.
Know What Matters Most—to You
Before you even step through the doors, spend a few minutes clarifying your priorities. Ask yourself:
What kind of support do we value most?
What style or experience feels like “us”?
What personality traits matter for this role on our wedding day?
For example, when choosing a photographer, couples often look for someone who is:
Calming in stressful moments
Organized and timeline-savvy
Great at giving direction without being intrusive
Experienced with real wedding environments (not just styled shoots)
Your priorities are the filter that will help you sort through options with ease.
Look Beyond Pricing Sheets
Pricing absolutely matters, and every couple deserves transparency, but great vendor decisions go deeper than a number on a page.
The biggest differentiators often include:
Experience level with your size or style of wedding
Availability of planning support and troubleshooting
Turnaround times and delivery expectations
Quality of ongoing communication
How well their style aligns with your vision
Two vendors may offer similar pricing, but the experience, guidance, and final product can feel completely different. A wedding day moves quickly. Choosing people you trust is worth everything.
Remember: peace of mind is worth every penny.
Notice How You Feel While Talking With Them
The wedding day is a deeply personal experience. The people you choose will be part of your inner circle, sometimes literally. Please pay attention to how you feel when you interact with them.
Ask yourself:
Did they listen and genuinely understand what I was saying?
Did they ask thoughtful questions?
Did I feel comfortable, supported, and at ease?
Can I imagine spending an entire wedding day around them?
Values and personality create the chemistry that leads to a great client–vendor relationship. That feeling is a real data point—trust it.
Ask Questions That Reveal Fit
(Not Just Facts)
When you’re talking to vendors at a show, you’ll hear a lot of helpful information—packages, pricing, timelines, services, and more. But the most meaningful clarity often comes from the questions you ask. A great question can quickly show you whether a vendor truly aligns with your personalities, expectations, and wedding day experience. It’s less about gathering data and more about discovering fit.
Here are a few starter questions you can ask that invite meaningful answers:
“What type of couples do you love working with?”
“How do you support couples during the planning process?”
“What sets your approach apart?”
“How do you handle unexpected challenges on the wedding day?”
These questions help you understand not just what they do, but how they do it.
Keep Your Takeaways Organized
Wedding shows are fast-paced and full of inspiration, which means it’s easy for names, booths, and conversations to blur together later. A little intentional organization goes a long way in helping you sort what resonated most. The goal isn’t to decide everything immediately but to create a clear path for thoughtful follow-up once you’re home and the excitement settles.
After the show, give yourself 10 minutes to sort your materials into three piles:
Favorites (vendors you want to follow up with)
Maybe (vendors who need more evaluation)
Not a Fit (vendors who don’t match your priorities)
Then send quick emails to your favorites within 48 hours—shows are busy for vendors too, and this keeps communication warm.
Tip: snap photos of booths and names you love because when you get home, everything starts to blend together.
Schedule Consults to Compare Apples to Apples
Once you’ve narrowed down your favorites, a quick consultation is where the real clarity happens. This is the moment to hear beyond brochures and price lists and to get a feel for how each vendor communicates, supports, and serves their couples. When you can compare vendors in an equal setting, your decision becomes much easier and, usually, a lot more exciting.
The real clarity comes when you talk through details one-on-one. A consult is where you’ll discover:
What working with them actually feels like
What their communication style is
What makes their approach unique
How they serve you behind the scenes
It’s also the quickest way to know if it’s a match.
A Simple Truth
Wedding shows are meant to spark excitement, connection, and possibilities. Choosing your vendors doesn’t have to be about pressure or urgency—it’s about alignment, trust, and feeling genuinely cared for.
The right vendors will make your planning season easier, your wedding day smoother, and your memories sweeter. And you deserve that.
Need a little clarity?
If you’re heading into a wedding show (or just left one with a bag full of brochures), I offer a complimentary 10-minute vendor clarity call to help couples sort through their favorites based on personality, priorities, and wedding day vision—no pressure, just support.
You can grab a time here:
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Planning a wedding is a beautiful blend of excitement, decisions, and “how do people normally do this?” moments. If you’re still exploring venues, vendors, or timelines, you don’t have to figure it all out alone. I’ve photographed so many weddings across Washington for the last nine years, and I’m always happy to share what I’ve learned. Whether it’s vendor recommendations, venue insights, or simply helping you understand what will best support the experience you want.
If you’d like to chat and make sure we’re the right fit, I offer a relaxed video or phone consult where we can talk about your vision, your priorities, and the feel you want your wedding day to have. There’s no pressure or commitment, just a friendly conversation to help you move forward with confidence.
If that sounds helpful, you’re welcome to schedule a time that works for you.
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